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How to Survive Christmas
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December 17, 2013  |  Written by Carlota Nelson

Christmas is right around the corner. The time of year when everyone is happy, singing Christmas carols and decorating the tree, buying or making gifts and cooking together. That’s the idea anyway. But for the vast majority, these holidays produce anxiety, impatience and stress. Feeling this way already?  Don’t worry, it’s normal. That’s why we’ve created a list of tips so you can survive the Christmas season and more importantly, make it memorable for the little ones at home.

Before we begin, close your eyes, take a deep breath and try to relax even if it’s for a few minutes. Think positive and try to remember your Christmas holidays when you were a child. What made you happy? What was your favorite thing to do? What are your best Christmas memories and what would you like your children to remember from this year? With that in mind, take your pen and paper and start planning your Christmas, always according to the time and budget you have available.

Expectations vs. Reality – during this time of year, expectations are on the rise, for children especially so try not promising things you can’t do. Ask them what they want to do. It might be easier than you expected. As a parent, you must be realistic and explain what of all that is possible. Also, share what you’d like to do this Christmas season so you can make a list of activities together and mark them in a calendar, accessible to all.

Creating traditions – when you recalled your favorite Christmas memories as a child, surely you thought of the things you did with your family such as helping to decorate the tree, cooking together, writing to Santa Claus, having friends over… Share these memories with your children and incorporate them into your family traditions and motivate them to create new ones. Remember to be open to suggestions!

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Delegate – Learn to delegate. This way, you’ll have the help you need and your children will be entertained and feel useful. Don’t just tell them what to do. Get them involved and help you think of what needs to be done. Again, be open to suggestions. How are we going to decorate the tree this year? When our guests arrive, what can we offer them to drink or eat? Where will we place their coats? How are we going to decorate and set the table? What can we cook together? Remember, make it fun and thank them for their help, especially in front of your guests.

New Routines – School’s out and the routines that go with have practically disappeared. However, it’s important to maintain schedules so children get the rest they need and deal with the hyperactivity that comes along with the holidays. Create new routines starting with teaching them how to make their beds and help out at home before playtime. Make sure they get their exercise by playing in the park with their friends, running errands with you, enrolling them in a dance class or organizing and taking turns with our parents for play dates.

Don’t leave it for later – If you already have your list of gifts, go out and buy them. You did that already? Well, don’t leave the wrapping for the last minute. Doing things fast and furious increases our stress level and the probability of mistakes. As soon as you have your list of things to do, the better.

Special Guests – surely you know someone who, for one reason or another, will not spend Christmas with their family. Invite them to spend a morning or afternoon at your house and why not invite them for Christmas dinner or New Years? Aside from making them happy, you’ll be teaching your children the real Christmas spirit of sharing and offering the best gift of all: your time and love.

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